It's the "thought" that counts.

This is a conversation I had with a friend yesterday (Sunday)...
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HER: Hey, I just wanted to take a moment to thank you for your military service. That's what this weekend is really supposed to be about after all, right?
ME: Well, Veterans Day is actually when we say thanks to those who served in the military. Memorial Day is specifically set aside to honor those who died in service to the country. I was in the army but never really ever came close to seeing combat.
HER: Oh whatever, it's the same thing.
ME" Oh, okay. Thanks then.